Dumpers feel rejection too, and are often confused. Dumper is hurting more than the dumpee now - Dumper's Guilt/Regret This isn't really a question, just thought I should share my story with others going through break ups. I think usually if they come back it is because they truly love that person & theyve spent some time away from them only to realize they actually do want that person in their life. They come with their own agenda. The dumpers temporarily become unrecognizable to the dumpees as they seem as if they have transformed into different people. My ex broke up with me almost 1 month ago . Subject: Dumpers, what made you come back/reconcile after a long period of time? Exes come back for themselves, n ot you! Yeah agree with this - women dumpers have come back to me. Read it carefully and tell me which dumper is he and then u got the answer. Mine clearly hasnt because he has not come back. Instead, he would say he misses you, and that he only sees the future with you. There’s a good chance he’ll miss you over time. We tried for a month or 6 weeks or so, but it took only a couple weeks before the lieing started again, and the bad attitude and games came back. When the dumper comes back, it’s nothing like when you first met him. When you're the dumper, you carry responsibility for the other person's emotions. But he has to make his choice freely. Hopefully the dumpees out there can think about this situation when trying to move on. They won't dump you to begin with. Anonymous I knew someone who: had an affair, divorced his wife, married the other woman, after a few years divorced the other woman, courted and remarried the original wife. It often depends on why you broke up, how much time has passed, whether you were madly in love, or if he has a feeling of relief now that the relationship is over. Someone who actually loves and appreciates you will not dump you and come back. If I wasn't in such a bad situation (long story), I never would have asked her to try again (falsely thinking we were both REALLY stressed and just havin a low point in our lives). If he said he came back to you because he doesn’t love his new partner or feels incredibly depressed without you, chances are you would reject him. Unfortunately they act this way only towards the dumpee. If he wanted to come back badly enough, regardless of pride or any other issues, I think he would?? I've never really dumped anyone. 1. divorced (as dumpee) and ex came back around twice (and got super bitter when I stopped chasing and was truly happy and in a great place). ***** -Rain I know some dumpers regret their decision and some dont. Our relationship was as perfect as perfect could get for over a year. Only to end things again. They walk all over you, and the second you stand up for yourself again, they're gone. It's not so easy. Guys that belongs to Dumper 2 will not contact u unless they feel lonely and ur the spare tire. They say and do things out of self-defense to protect themselves from emotional pain. There’s almost a 50% chance that he will. 2. My ex who dumped me, tried to come back around after almost a year, but at the time I was interested in someone new & wanted to see what he had to offer. Yes those who dump you do try and come back the time frame is different for everyone but here is my story. Will A Dumper Come Back? The only issue we had was his 24 … It is not uncommon to receive a strange out-of-the-blue call from the dumper a few weeks, months or even years down the line. 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